I forgot about me. I was the one to pamper myself and make sure I was on top of it; not anymore. Now I realize or have realized I need to get back in the groove of things. Good luck to you! Pingback: My Homepage. Thanks for this awesome post.
I really enjoyed it. Its nice to know there are still women who are not afraid to be women. The first one pretty much said to wear dresses and lose weight so thank you for this! I have horses.. Thank you. Just randomly found your blog read and oh my how I connect with you and your personality. Thanks for the blog read. Wow, i love your post. Anyway, i just want to show my thanks and appreciation to you.
Hi dear! XOXO, Oksana. This is a lovely post. I came across your blog about a year ago and have now just re-discovered it need to make sure I bookmark it this time. I think your personality really shows in your writing and pictures! I think it is so easy to forget to take the time to be feminine especially in between our chores, work, social commitments but I personally try to incorporate it as much possible.
Hi Kristina! Thanks so much for your sweet words and encouragement! I would be thrilled to have you join in on future discussions! I love this blog…it expresses loving yourself and being more humble and proud about being that delicate flower that you naturally are inside …Embracing being a women is not to prove you are to a man by being hard like a man but accepting yourself for what your heart guides you to be inside and thats a woman..
Hi Nareena! Thank you oh-so-much for stopping by and sharing your thoughts! It brings me such joy to come across readers like yourself, who truly understand what it means to be a lady and the power that comes with our role as women.
That would be like meditation. Also, that making sandwiches part is really adorable! Your email address will not be published. Feminine energy refers to a specific set of traits, considered to be the opposite of traits associated with masculine energy.
Your masculine side gets expressed when you're working toward a goal, making progress, getting things done, and pushing forward. Your feminine side gets expressed when you move with the flow of life, embrace your creative energy, dance, play, and attune to your internal process. Importantly, these traits are not associated with gender.
The set of traits we've come to define as "feminine" do stem from the expectations we used to place on women throughout history to behave a certain way. Likewise, the traits associated with being "masculine" are traits we used to expect from men. Today we know people of all genders can have any combination of any of these traits, and no traits are inherent to any gender or should be expected of any gender. That said, the words "feminine" and "masculine" can still be helpful in describing two different and opposing ways of being.
For people of all genders, both feminine energy and masculine energy are necessary to embody in order to feel like a complete person. Men are usually encouraged to identify more with masculine energy, but there's great joy in being able to let go and be flexible.
In fact, it's more important than ever to raise boys without gender stereotypes! Likewise, many women are still raised with expectations to be feminine, but there are many benefits to being clear, directive, and progressive.
It's satisfying for all of us to have outlets for both our masculine and feminine energies. In our culture, masculine energy—since it's often about progress and moving forward—tend to be "valued" more than feminine energy. This creates a feeling of being off-balance, both individually and culturally. When we overvalue masculinity, we spend most of our time working and very little time resting, taking vacation, and spontaneously connecting with others.
Overvaluing masculinity also leads us to become dependent on man-made things, such as our smartphones and laptops, and spend less time in nature or expressing our creative selves. Being overly masculine and under-feminine leaves many of us longing for something else—something rejuvenating, something wild, something resourceful, something spontaneous. It's the feminine! Many of us are so busy that we rarely take time to listen to what's going on inside of us.
If we're always acting in an extroverted way, it creates a schism within. We lose touch with our deeper selves. This can be easily modified. All you have to do is internally connect to who you are. An excellent way to do this is to start therapy. When you work with a therapist to explore your thoughts and feelings, you're essentially diving into your deeper, internal, feminine side. Another feminine piece in your wardrobe is shoes with a heel.
Nice heels will always be a sign of a feminine, stylish, and classy woman. If the situation does not call for heels, you can still look feminine with flat shoe options too — just try to choose more elegant, shinier, and feminine shoe models. Women love and have loved accessories for ages. Beautiful, tasteful jewelry, bags, and scarves can lift your whole look to another level.
Find jewelry pieces that enhance your feminine look and make you look softer or sexier. BUT these are just a few ideas and you should always try to find your own style, your own set of accessories that YOU like. Also, perfume. Just a hint of feminine, juicy and glowy perfume is exactly what you need to be boost your femininity in a second. To gain more self-respect and build inner femininity, work on these things:. Also, when you are working on your true femininity, you are also feeling more confident just because you do something for yourself.
Also, be sure to always find ways to use your feminine qualities your intuition, creativity, kindness, etc. Offer your assistance in small ways when you can. For example, if you know a young girl who is struggling with her own emotional health, offer to give her some support or honest advice.
Femininity can also be expressed by helping the less fortunate people, sharing your knowledge, and never being afraid of feminine competition.
Bloom among other women by uplifting them and helping them to get along, instead of always competing with each other. Be a ray of sunshine on a cloudy day! Radiate love! By following these simple tips on how to be more feminine you will be well on your way to manifesting your feminine energy and improving your inner radiance.
You can improve your love life, your career, and your finances. You can be more confident. You can have more satisfying sex. Celebrate your femininity and embrace it without fear. Steer clear and think of something else.
Is it crude or crass or inappropriate? Don't say anything. Start to train your mind to rethink things that aren't ladylike.
Give sincere compliments. Giving fake compliments is catty, not feminine. A lady should be able to find something kind or complimentary to say or make a person feel special and important by pointing out something that he or she is doing well.
You can say something as simple as, "I love your dress. It matches your eyes perfectly. How long have you been playing? Just give a compliment whenever the mood strikes you. Avoid bragging. If you want to be feminine, then avoid bragging about your accomplishments, talking about how amazing you look or generally showing off. A truly feminine person is confident enough in her looks and abilities to let other people figure out how amazing she is. You don't have to be so humble that you can't take a compliment or never talk about your achievements, but avoid doing anything that may come off as bragging or making you seem a little full of yourself.
A truly feminine person doesn't need to show off for the compliments to come. Be polite. A feminine person isn't rude, off-putting or generally mean to anyone around her. Even if you're hanging around someone you don't like very much, you should avoid being openly combative or hostile. Instead, smile, be polite and limit your contact with the person as much as you can. A feminine woman also says "Please," and "Thank you" whenever it's necessary.
Being polite doesn't mean you're restricted from talking about certain topics. Just ton't talk about anything overly vulgar, curse too much or bring up inappropriate topics in the wrong company. Be compassionate. A feminine person feels compassion for other people, knows how to sympathize with people and says the right thing when they're trying to help someone.
Know how to say things like, "I'm so sorry you're feeling that way," "I can't imagine how hard that is for you," or "Please let me know if there's anything I can do. While you're saying comforting words, you should also behave in a comforting manner. Don't be afraid to put your arm around the person or to use your body language to show how sympathetic you are if it's appropriate.
I'm not fully feminine because I like video games. How do I make myself lose interest in video games? That's silly. There's nothing wrong with liking video games, and plenty of girls do. Don't change your whole personality because you want to be more feminine. Keep playing video games if you want to. Not Helpful 20 Helpful Of course. If you want to be feminine and it makes you happy, go for it. If you tried being feminine and you don't feel comfortable, that's fine, as well.
Not Helpful 7 Helpful I can't buy female clothing because I don't have enough money. What should I do? Thrift shops are a great option when money is tight. You can also ask female friends if they have any clothing or accessories they'd like to get rid of. Not Helpful 6 Helpful I'm wired in a way that I can sometimes be rude or off putting by accident, or I talk too much and act bossy.
I also am interested in unfeminine things. How can I learn to be more feminine? You can't be perfect about controlling yourself, but you can improve. Thinking before speaking is key. Before saying anything at all, think about how people might react. Ask yourself if you're being rude or if you're about to tell someone what to do, and if the answer is yes, don't say that thing.
If you do accidentally say something rude or offensive, apologize right away. Nobody's perfect and people should understand that. As for your interests, don't try to change them. If you like sports or video games or other things that are traditionally viewed as more oriented to guys, it's fine.
It doesn't make you unfeminine and you shouldn't try to change something that's an intrinsic part of who you are. Not Helpful 4 Helpful Yes, of course. Neither your age nor your race preclude your from being feminine.
Not Helpful 9 Helpful Being feminine doesn't mean you should have long hair, as long as you feel comfortable with what you have. That depends on the girl, it's different for everybody. There are some good suggestions in the article on How to Pack Your Purse. Not Helpful 5 Helpful There are other articles on the site more geared towards your question.
Not Helpful 8 Helpful All people have different body shapes and sizes. As long as you love every inch of your body, you are good to go.
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